don't measure the distance, measure the love

juz wanan share this with you guys: :)

I've been with my boyfriend for five years now and recently he went away to work abroad . Being in a long distance relationship has been one of the hardest things that we've ever had to do . And I can tell you, the experience of being apart , is one of the most difficult periods in a long distance relationship. It made me feel so horrible, that sometimes I wonder "Why do I feel like this?".(first time?):-)

While we were together, we were inseparable, took long walks together and made all moments count, but now is arriving the time my boyfriend has to go away. It's like something triggers inside me, that say that my boyfriend is leaving, I fight against the separation in all the ways I can. I felt terrible, I cried without control, but nevertheless we hold and kiss each other like we will never see each other again. And even at the last moment, when we were at airport, We’ll ignore the last calling of the departure, until I finally realize he really have to leave. But no matter how much you protest to prevent the separation, wla eh kelangan…hehehe

Depression???.

I can't stop crying, I miss him like hell, I can't sleep, can't eat?, lose interest for things, you can't concentrate in anything, and all I want is to be together with him
all time. And they said it was a natural reaction when you love somebody so
much.This phase of depression and loneliness can last only some minutes, but in most cases it will last for several days. Agree???

the Detachment.???

I have to continue with my life, even being apart from him, and being depressed won't bring him back. So now that I already understand "what's wrong with me?" each time we’ll have to go through the process of separation, does it means that
you can't do nothing about it?No, no and no, and maybe some other time I will share with you some things you can do to soften this process of separation.

But remember, it's a fact that no matter how many times you go by the experience of separation again and again, nothing eliminates your depression, loneliness. The only thing you can do is to realize their existence, understand the situation, and take action so you can make this experience more "soft".

DON’T MEASURE THE DISTANCE, MEASURE THE LOVE………